We were raised on rules. Eat less, move more. Avoid fat. Trust the label. But the modern health narrative is built on a house of half truths. Clever marketing disguised as medicine.
So many of us have pursued “health” with the best intentions… only to end up depleted, dysregulated, and disconnected from our bodies.
Let’s unravel the 5 biggest health lies we’ve all been told...
1. “Fat makes you fat”
This one did more damage than we may ever fully understand. It birthed a generation terrified of butter, yolks, and cream, and ushered in an era of low-fat yoghurts, spray oils, skim milk, and metabolic dysfunction.
But your body doesn’t just tolerate fat, it requires it. Cholesterol, found in animal fats, is the precursor to all major sex and steroid hormones: oestrogen, progesterone, testosterone, cortisol, and aldosterone. Without enough cholesterol, and the fat-soluble vitamins (A, D, E, and K2) that accompany it, your body can’t make or regulate hormones properly.
And hormones aren’t a luxury. They govern everything… your metabolism, your mood, your menstrual cycle, your sleep, your immune system, your digestion, your ability to handle stress, and your capacity to build or repair tissue.
To starve the body of fat is to starve the body of hormonal intelligence.
It’s not fat that disrupts health, it’s the absence of nutrient-dense, ancestral fats and the presence of industrial, inflammatory ones that confuses your cells and drains your vitality. So bring back the butter. Embrace the yolks. Honour the sacred role of fat, not just as fuel, but as the foundation of hormonal harmony.
2. “Health comes from discipline”
We’re sold the idea that the healthiest people are the most self-controlled. That if you just push harder...wake up at 5am, smash cold plunges, track every macro, resist every craving, you’ll earn health through willpower.
But here’s the truth: micromanaging your body into submission isn’t health, it’s stress. And chronic stress is the fastest way to wreck your hormones.
This kind of rigidity sends a constant message of danger to your nervous system. Cortisol stays high. Progesterone and testosterone drop. Thyroid function slows to conserve energy. Over time, this leads to burnout, hormonal dysregulation, and deep physical depletion.
When you're constantly forcing yourself to override hunger, rest, or instinct, you’re not getting healthier. You’re just getting better at ignoring your body’s signals.
There’s a reason people in many European countries remain active and metabolically healthy without obsessing over workouts or macros. They integrate healthy practices into their life, rather than fitting their life in around their health goals. Try letting go of control for a few days, or even a few weeks. Let your body lead. Move in ways that feel good that day, not because it’s on the schedule. Rest when you're tired. Eat when you're truly hungry. Pay attention to what shifts. Often, when you step away from high-intensity training and lean into slow walks, time in nature, and nourishing meals (meals full of fat dare we say), you start to feel lighter, calmer, even leaner. That’s not a fluke. It’s your nervous system and metabolism responding to safety, rhythm, and trust. If there's anything to take away from this...ditch the calorie counting app.
3. “As long as your macros are right, it doesn’t matter what you eat”
This is one of the most modern health lies, unfortunately still shared even by nutritionists and health coaches (And can we blame them? This is the framework they were taught).
Hit your protein goal with powders. Get your fats from nut butters. Fit in your carbs with cereal or rice cakes. As long as the numbers add up, it must be fine… right?
Wrong. Because food isn’t just maths, it’s biological information. Your body isn’t tracking grams. It’s absorbing nutrients. It’s listening for co-factors, enzymes, and mineral content.
- You can hit 120g of protein from whey isolate, but if you’re not getting retinol (true vitamin A), zinc, copper, and bioavailable amino acids from whole animal foods, you won’t produce balanced hormones or build resilient tissue.
- You can hit your carb targets with processed granola bars, but without glucose from ripe fruit and potassium from root veg, your thyroid will stay sluggish, and your blood sugar will swing.
- You can hit your fats with sunflower oil, but these oxidised, PUFA-rich oils inflame the gut, damage cellular membranes, and dysregulate hormonal signalling.
Macros tell you quantity. But your hormones respond to quality, to real, whole, ancestral foods... eggs, organs, raw milk, seasonal fruit, bone broth, wild fish, grass-fed meat. The foods that built human health long before nutrition was quantified.
3. “If you’re tired, you’re just lazy”
We’ve been conditioned to see fatigue as a moral failing.
Push harder. Drink more coffee. Squeeze in another workout. Keep going. No excuses.
But waking up with consistent energy, creativity, and excitement to work on your goals isn’t just about mindset, it’s a reflection of your metabolic health.
When you feel chronically tired, it’s often because your body is struggling to produce energy at a cellular level. This is metabolic dysfunction, and it frequently goes unrecognised.
You might notice it as
- Waking up tired, even after a full night’s sleep
- Relying on caffeine to function
- Energy crashes after meals
- Cold hands and feet
- Brain fog, sugar cravings, or mood swings
For women, chronic fatigue often points to low thyroid function, sluggish liver detoxification, adrenal dysregulation, or low progesterone, especially in the second half of the cycle. For men, it’s commonly linked to poor blood sugar regulation, low testosterone, or overtraining without proper recovery. And for both, one of the most overlooked contributors is the overconsumption of oxidised seed oils, which impair mitochondrial function and hormone signalling.
Additionally, without adequate minerals (like magnesium, sodium, copper), glucose from whole food carbohydrates, quality sleep, and nervous system regulation, the body shifts into a chronic stress state. You stop running on real energy, and start running on adrenaline.
But that’s not sustainable. Over time, the body compensates by slowing down everything…hormone production, digestion, libido, immune response, all in an effort to conserve what little energy remains.
The focus shouldn’t be on more willpower, it should be on metabolic repair…balanced, mineral-rich meals, stable blood sugar, slow mornings with sunlight, deep sleep, and creating conditions of safety in the body. When these foundations are in place, energy returns naturally, and effort no longer feels like a battle.
5. “Your body is broken, it needs to be fixed”
This is the lie quietly embedded in almost every wellness message we’ve been sold…
That your body is a problem. That your symptoms are malfunctions. That your hunger is a threat. That your emotions are too much. That your cycle is unreliable. That your skin, weight, or energy need managing. It’s the reason we chase fixes. New protocols. More supplements. Better control. But here’s what no one tells you…
Your body isn’t broken. It’s responding, perfectly, to the environment it’s in.
- Bloating isn’t a malfunction…it’s a digestive system asking for less stress and more support.
- Missing periods aren’t random…they’re a sign your body doesn’t feel safe enough to reproduce.
- Acne might be your liver struggling to process excess estrogen or inflammatory oils
- Low libido, hair loss, anxiety…these aren’t flaws. They’re feedback.
And when we suppress these signs with medication, distractions, or constant correction, we don’t heal, we just silence the alarm.
Instead of asking, “How do I fix this?”, start asking, “What is my body responding to?” Healing isn’t about adding more, it’s about removing what’s interfering with your body’s ability to self-regulate. That might be industrial seed oils disrupting your metabolism. Environmental toxins placing an unseen burden on your liver. Overtraining and under-eating keeping your adrenals in overdrive. Or even staying in close contact with someone who keeps your nervous system in a constant state of fight or flight. Start there. When the interference is gone, your body knows exactly what to do.
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